The Webs Around Us

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We live in a world that never stops moving. Probably it is one of those things which drives us to get up every morning and move with it. But in all this orderly chaos have you ever wondered why are we doing all this if in the end life is only going to end?

“Perpetual devotion to what a man calls his business, is only to be sustained by perpetual neglect of many other things.” 
― Robert Louis Stevenson

I don’t know about others but sometimes when I am stuck in a hard place in life, I always wonder that why do I have to go though this pain or this awful situation or this embarrassment if in the end it will all be worth nothing. With the end of my life all that will also end and then who cares what happened throughout my life or what were my struggles. I don’t know the answers to all these questions but in between all that pondering I realised what is really important in life… “PEOPLE“. Yes! People and I’m not talking about all the people but the people who care for you and for whom you care.

We all are part of the RAT RACE in which people willingly or unwillingly participate in and want to come first as well. While going through all this trouble to win the race we forget what really matters and misplace our priorities. We put our materialistic achievements over the people in our lives. Everyone who is in this race is mostly blinded by it and puts more value on our’s and other’s  physical and material belongings. However we all forget that all this will not be with us when we die or won’t be worth anything on deathbed. Only the people with whom your bonds existed are going to remember you, cherish your memories and lament your loss.

“ Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.”  ― Steve Jobs

So, we should all take a deep breath and take a pause in this rat race to reconsider and realign our priorities. What good is earning that wealth which makes you grow distant to your own family and friends. Maybe a penny lost here or there can always be regained but the loss of a person or a real bond can never be regained.

It’s not bad to be a part of the race but one should know where their priorities really lie.

 

 

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The Sun of our life

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There are people who make our life worth living for and there are people who through all that time help us live this life. We all have our life problems and issues that we deal with on daily basis. Then there are some extra crisis situations too where we think that “Am I going to get through this or not?”

“And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.”
Haruki Murakami

So yes, overall we are humans and humans have a tendency to be self-centered. We never think about the support system that we have which would have helped us get through it. There are so many people, problems that revolve around us in our lives but even in all this there is somebody who gives us the right gravity and keeps us grounded so that we can get through this life. Someone who gives us the right balance to navigate through this life just like the Sun which stands in the centre and gives the right gravity to other planets and our Earth, so that the life can flourish on it. Even the smallest particle in our universe has a nucleus just like the Sun to give it a shape, balance and existence.

“Sometimes people are beautiful.
Not in looks.
Not in what they say.
Just in what they are.”
Markus Zusak, I Am the Messenger

We all have our own Sun who lets us find our own way through any problems or crisis, only giving us a nudge in the right direction and always standing there as our support system. Each one of us has that one person or more than one person who plays that role of the Sun in our lives. We kind of harness all the energy and support that they may provide us with which just makes our lives a lot easier by making happy times more happier and sad times a little less glum. With them standing with us even in the eye of any storm the horizon seems nearer and clearer. They help us in seeing the silver lining of any cloud.

So although we have our Sun in our lives sometimes we forget to appreciate their being there. As humans we are more attuned to our problems, our feelings our everything and try to address them first but forget that somebody else is also addressing your concerns with you. Sometimes ignorance is not bliss. Finding our Sun and holding onto that Sun is what we need to do and even though its the easiest task still we can’t manage to do that right.

We humans cannot survive alone because we are social animals and living life can become a tedious task if you don’t have the right company. So as

 “You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.”
Mae West

Therefore find that person or persons who make the Sun of your life and hold onto them because life rarely gives second chances and having right people around you is what is going to get you through this life. We need to appreciate their value because they are the KEEPERS who we need to retain in our lives to make it more than a simple existence and a life worth living for.